You want a way to control what's going on around you so that it doesn't feel so random and unpredictable.
You want...predictability.
You want consistency from the one you're with.
You want to know what's going to happen in a future that hasn't happened yet.
You want...certainty.
Not in a boring kind-of-way that means you have to plan every last-thing right down to the details of what you're going to eat for lunch next Tuesday at 11:53:42 am, ET. Nawwww...not in that way. ;)
But you do want to be prepared. You want to know. You want a sense of control over your life.
Maybe you feel it's all out-of-control.
Maybe controlling as many and as much as you can would make you feel better.
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